Why cant i find a girl? [Archive] - World Wide F-Body Hideout

GaBandit403

02-06-2006, 09:28 AM

Like tha title says...i might just be ugly or i havent been looking in the right spots....idk...i mean i treat my gf's like queens...i havent got any complaints yet. I mean i aint shallow i just want somebody to click with. Any tips? www.xanga.com/its_a_georgia_thang there is a pic of me...its kinda old and i found my style (country) I wish i could find somebody who likes cars. (As long as it aint import...mustangs are ok). Lol anyone wanna find a girl in central Ga for me? well thanx in advance. if yall think yall can help me please do. :(

dontshakepandas

02-06-2006, 09:36 AM

I know I'm not a girl.. but I have one so you are getting my advice anyways haha.

If you want a girl.. stop looking for one. The harder you try the less likely it is that you will find someone. Enjoy your life, do things you like doing and you will meet people who enjoy those same things. MOST girls don't like desperation, and you are really giving off that vibe right now. Just relax and be patient.

GaBandit403

02-06-2006, 09:42 AM

im not really looking..i aint got time between school and work...

I OWNED U

02-06-2006, 11:13 AM

Make yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and then go rub one out. After that, think before you post.

TransAmaniac

02-06-2006, 11:33 AM

You want to buy my Sister?

I OWNED U

02-06-2006, 11:34 AM

You want to buy my Sister?
lol, ron's pimpin out his sister....lmao

Cyndy

02-06-2006, 11:41 AM

Captain

02-06-2006, 12:12 PM

Make yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and then go rub one out. After that, think before you post.

roflmao! that made opening this worth while.

I have a short story to share with you that'll hopefully help you out.

http://myspace-235.vo.llnwd.net/00069/53/24/69464235_l.jpg

That is one of my best friends from back home, Jonny B. Everywhere he goes every female I have met has said that he is 'so hot'. I almost want to shoot myself when I hear girls talk about how attractive he is. Anyways, Jon hasn't gotten a girl in forever. Not 1 night stands, not any flings, nothing. Jon says the same thing that he treats girls awsome like they are queens and all that ****. He has the problem of seeming desperate. All he does is complain about how he never hooks up with anyone... even around the girls. I hate to quote the 40 year old virgin, but he is putting females on a pedistal. He needs to learn that girls arn't unattainable, no matter how hot.

I don't know if that's what you're doing, but if it is, stop. Get your ass up, go out, if you meet a girl don't put any stock in it at all. Shrug it off if she doesn't seem intrested. And if she is intrested, don't make a big deal of it, just keep your cool and let human nature work it's wonders.

And if all else fails, go back and make a PB&J sandwich and rub one out.

SmokePanther

02-06-2006, 12:14 PM

Why cant i find a girl?

Because you're looking. Really, that's the real basic thing...you're looking for a girl and since you're not finding any immediately, it's all you're focusing on; the not finding. Like the others said, just chill out about it...buy some car parts or somethin

NWanner

02-06-2006, 12:30 PM

Because you're looking. Really, that's the real basic thing...you're looking for a girl and since you're not finding any immediately, it's all you're focusing on; the not finding. Like the others said, just chill out about it...buy some car parts or somethin
like anything in life people want their significant other to be like a prize, something special. if you make yourself seem to available or easy to get then getting with you wouldn't seem like a very good prize at all. people usually don't get with people in desperation other than for hook-ups. so when a chick is around looking for a guy she wants something thats gonna be a challenge to get with so that she can feel inside that she's either good at the game or attractive and yadda-yadda. thats why taken men/women always are sought after becuase they are comfortable with themselves and not looking. get in the mindframe that you're taken and soon enough i'm sure you'll meet someone. oh and get rid of that shy-a$$ attitude cuz the only time a chick will make the first move is when she's drunk and at that point she prolly thinks you're better looking than you are. you gotta be comfortable around people, i learned to be after many a random parties where'd i'd go and not know anyone and after a good 20 mins or so i'd be drinkin all the free booze i wanted.

BMF99CamaroSS

02-06-2006, 02:10 PM

first off quit saying the word aint so damn much

TorchTA

02-06-2006, 06:26 PM

It probably has something to do with your being on the internet looking for pointers.

Aside from that, refer to the posts about "don't look" "don't seem so friggin desperate" and "have a PBJ and rub one out."

FBodyChic

02-06-2006, 09:12 PM

Girls who are into cars are few and far between...especially the ones who like the real muscle...it will come one day u have a long life ahead of u and trust me for ur own good ur better off doing what u wanna do right now instead of having all of the hassle

GaBandit403

02-07-2006, 04:57 AM

I aint deperate....no time to be...

ls1greg

02-07-2006, 05:08 AM

"I aint deperate....no time to be..."

werd

FBodyChic

02-07-2006, 08:50 AM

I aint deperate....no time to be...
Hope u dont think thats what I was saying to u hun.

liss87

02-07-2006, 09:14 AM

I have to agree with her girls who really like cars are few and far between. Why do you think there are so few of us on the forums? Here is the thing you can find a lot of girls who like looking good in cars but you dont find to many who actually like the cars themselves or know anything about them. My boyfriend got lucky, becuase I was that way once. I have not always liked cars. I liked the way cars looked and the way I looked in them but I didnt care about anything else and then I met my boyfriend and everything just ran from there. Now there is no stopping me and we race at the track together. Just be patient, trust me you are not the only one, i have a guy friend that is looking for the same thing right now ;) .

GaBandit403

02-07-2006, 10:58 AM

thanx yall i didnt mean to be "werd" but i basically just work and go to school...im thinking about taking saterdays off and just go riding and hanging out...ya knoe meeting new ppl...maybe ill be lucky.....and who was trying to pimp their sister? :D lol jk

FrostZ28

02-07-2006, 11:31 AM

Girls who are into cars are few and far between...especially the ones who like the real muscle.
Shes EXACTLY right man. I had one once, it was GREAT!! She was beautiful and I could go to all the car shows I could find, spend all my money on my car. Then because I wasn't jealous enough she cheated on me because she thought I didn't care about her. Basically what Ive learned is, that whole its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all thing is crap! Just be careful what you wish for. Don't worry about finding someone sometimes it isn't worth it. Falling in love is over rated.

Cory

02-16-2006, 06:43 PM

Make yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and then go rub one out. After that, think before you post.
Hahahahahaah...Trev that was low.

Anyway, and sorry to laugh man...your first post wasn't the best. Don't go 'actively seeking' a girl, you'll more than likely grab the wrong one, and you'll regret it afterward. Just live your life man, do the things you like to do. Hang out with people who do the things you like. Sooner or later, and before you realize, ... Have patience, it really does pay off.

WS6Fanatic

02-16-2006, 11:05 PM

See, what you need to do is get 30-40 hood rats and just bang through them....

flaming-ford

02-17-2006, 04:39 AM

See, what you need to do is get 30-40 hood rats and just bang through them....

very nice :D.

LS1Addict

02-17-2006, 09:49 AM

Make yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and then go rub one out. After that, think before you post.
that is the greatest post ever recorded on the hideout

NWanner

02-17-2006, 11:00 PM

that is the greatest post ever recorded on the hideout
i had to quote it, modified it a little but still had to quote it

stuntcruiser

02-18-2006, 11:20 PM

here's my philosophy... if you can't find a good one, raise one.

Guido

02-27-2006, 06:46 PM

heres my advice stop looking and then youll find one quickly, im dead serious works for anyone

flaming-ford

02-28-2006, 04:16 AM

except me, no reason to not go looking for women, i do it about every friday and have been shot down the last 2 fridays lol.....

All you need is confidence, just go talk to them it's only puzzy.

NWanner

02-28-2006, 09:59 AM

heres my advice stop looking and then youll find one quickly, im dead serious works for anyone
the same is true for me but i'm not exactly looking haha

TransAm99Chic

02-28-2006, 04:35 PM

basically a girl likes a guy that is confident, but not ****y, nice and charming, but not too nice. At first all girls like a**holes pretty much, then after a few heartbreaks and what not they realize they need a nice guy, someone who will try them right, but not give them everything in the world. You gotta leave an opening for the game, can't just give it all to them in the beginning, gotta work up to that.

Ask Travis (tbird31) yeahhh he's a pansy, tries to give girls everything they want and they just walk all over him. (just playing Travis I love you!). the thing is some guys have it and some guys don't. You gotta find where you are comfortable between confident and ****y, nice and too nice. And don't try, the more you try the less you will succeed, just take it easy.

When I had given up on guys and didn't wanna date, I had 2 or 3 guys calling me and asking me to hang out. It was exactly what I didn't want. So don't even try or think about it and you'll be fine

86TransAm350

02-28-2006, 04:40 PM

except me, no reason to not go looking for women, i do it about every friday and have been shot down the last 2 fridays lol.....

All you need is confidence, just go talk to them it's only puzzy.

AND thats why you keep getting shot down. Cuz you refer to women has "only puzzy"

Maybe if you talked to them as ppl instead of an object you would actally get a gf,

Oh yeah....loser

Guido

02-28-2006, 05:42 PM

the lady gave some good advice, similar mentality has worked for me on various girls and thats how i got a decent g/f

flaming-ford

02-28-2006, 07:12 PM

i don't refer to women as ***** but, ok....... I said *it's just puzzy*.... Only major difference between the 2 sex's if you will. I Stole the saying from a buddy, it's good stuff. It helps put things in perspective for those that aren't so self confident.

Just a quicky saying that makes sense to me but, to each his own....

Btw for you info though i'm actually a virgin, therefore that's not all i think about.

As for me not having many girlfriends that's kool......think what you want about that. In truth i'd rather not be attached most of the time. I just like to have a good time while i still can. That and unlike most guys i'm not the cheating type.

Btw read between the lines before you act like an ass hole next time.

Cyndy

03-01-2006, 03:01 AM

Ok Guys..
This is a WARNING.... It's one thing to state your opinion, however there is no need to use flamatory names to another member...
If it happens again this thread will be locked..

ls1greg

03-01-2006, 05:11 AM

I can't believe this thread is still alive and kickin'...

im not really looking..i aint got time between school and work...
I aint deperate....no time to be...

Here's my opinion: based on your two posts and based on what I experienced through college (two jobs, school work, and no play), would you even have time for a girlfriend? I know I didn't. I didn't have time to look around or play stupid mind games either. (Girls don't like this kind of asshoIe lol) Also, are you cheap? I'm just wondering because I know I'll be damned if I pay some cover charge to get into any place. Why pay $5.00 or more just so you can pay $4.00 for a beer and $8.00 for a shot and maybe, just maybe, meet someone you might like??? Not even a 100% guarantee. And you'd have to pay for her drinks too, just so she'll pay attention to you! Not to mention it could be a sausage fest inside, but by the time you figure that out you'd already have paid the cover. If you're cheap and always busy like I am, good luck!

So, I guess my question is, do you have enough free time to actually go out, and if so, do you have a problem spending money?

I say stick with the PB&Js...

~Squigley~

03-01-2006, 07:44 AM

Like alot of people said... you cant find a girl cuz your looking for one... go out, have fun, do your own thing, and be confident when you are introduced or are introducing yourself to a girl, but dont act despirate... a little alcohol in the system also helps with being confident :D

flaming-ford

03-01-2006, 10:21 AM

Mandi

03-02-2006, 07:14 AM

I think dating is overrated. Don't find a girl.

NWanner

03-02-2006, 12:52 PM

I think dating is overrated. Don't find a girl.
exactly, russian mail-order brides all the way!

Sacred

03-02-2006, 01:35 PM

exactly, russian mail-order brides all the way!

There's nothing like a girl who can't speak english. They don't talk as much and when they do you don't have to pay attention.

NWanner

03-02-2006, 04:55 PM

There's nothing like a girl who can't speak english. They don't talk as much and when they do you don't have to pay attention.
plus they're used to getting the snot beat out of them for ****ing up your sandwich;

"I SAID NO MAYO HOE!"

ls1greg

03-02-2006, 06:50 PM

plus they're used to getting the snot beat out of them for ****ing up your sandwich;

"I SAID NO MAYO HOE!"

LOL !

Tenom

03-02-2006, 10:17 PM

Hmmmm in my group of friends i'm the one who always finds the hot girls. Then the girls fall for them. In turn my friends go out with them. They got out for awhile, break up, get back together, break up, and then get back together. And all those break ups were for stupid reasons, like "i'm bored with her", then why did you go out with her? I told my friends that if any of them ever did it again i'de shoot them in the kneecaps.

O and if you want "how to get a girl advice" don't start out a conversation on the phone with a girl when they say "how are you doing" don't say "I'm gassy".

Mandi

03-04-2006, 06:52 AM

plus they're used to getting the snot beat out of them for ****ing up your sandwich;

"I SAID NO MAYO HOE!"

They're getting smart. They're starting to carry a concealed weapon. They'll blow your ass away.

03-04-2006, 07:01 AM

plus they're used to getting the snot beat out of them for ****ing up your sandwich;

"I SAID NO MAYO HOE!"

http://users.nexet.net/nicholson/bostuff/funny/women_internet.jpg

Cyndy

03-04-2006, 07:03 AM

http://users.nexet.net/nicholson/bostuff/funny/women_internet.jpg

HA FU**IN HA Bo.... lol

NWanner

03-04-2006, 09:30 AM

HA FU**IN HA Bo.... lol
haha, you can always count on Bo to find a fitting picture for every occasion. he's like the halmark of funny internet pictures or something.

NWanner

03-04-2006, 09:30 AM

HA FU**IN HA Bo.... lol
haha, you can always count on Bo to find a fitting picture for every occasion. he's like the halmark of funny internet pictures or something.

Cyndy

03-04-2006, 11:06 PM

ok stop repeating your self Nick or I am gonna have to come and smack ya silly.....:D

NWanner

03-04-2006, 11:09 PM

ok stop repeating your self Nick or I am gonna have to come and smack ya silly.....:D
lol, have another white russian and lets see you try :p

Cyndy

03-04-2006, 11:13 PM

lol, have another white russian and lets see you try :p

Bring it on baby... you know ill win.. just ask ryan...

NWanner

03-04-2006, 11:14 PM

Bring it on baby... you know ill win.. just ask ryan...
i'm smart enough not to stand infront of glass tables haha, or walls for that matter.

Cyndy

03-04-2006, 11:15 PM

i'm smart enough not to stand infront of glass tables haha, or walls for that matter.

i promise no glass tables

30thSS

03-05-2006, 11:12 AM

i promise no glass tables
haha id give u my opinions but then id just look like and outright sexist,cuz meand women arent on the same lines today

anyways that "stop looking crap" is all BS i stopped looking almost 2years ago and still end up empty handed. haha

anyways alls i need is my health and my car and im happy lol

NWanner

03-05-2006, 11:37 AM

haha id give u my opinions but then id just look like and outright sexist,cuz meand women arent on the same lines today

anyways that "stop looking crap" is all BS i stopped looking almost 2years ago and still end up empty handed. haha

anyways alls i need is my health and my car and im happy lol
yup, that and palmala handerson and you're golden.

flaming-ford

03-05-2006, 01:59 PM

yup, that and palmala handerson and you're golden.

Nice 1 haven't hard that 1 yet quite the original :D.

Then again she is getting old and ugly and has been disease infested for a while which is a turn off for me so you can have her :p

flaming-ford

03-05-2006, 01:59 PM

flaming-ford

03-05-2006, 02:00 PM

yup, that and palmala handerson and you're golden.

Nice 1, haven't heard that 1 yet, quite the original :D.

Then again she is getting old, ugly, and has been disease infested for a while which, is a turn off for me so you can have her :p

NWanner

03-05-2006, 02:04 PM

Nice 1, haven't heard that 1 yet, quite the original :D.

Then again she is getting old, ugly, and has been disease infested for a while which, is a turn off for me so you can have her :p
damn boy, watch out for those triple posts there.

Cyndy

03-05-2006, 03:52 PM

Nice 1 haven't hard that 1 yet quite the original :D.

Then again she is getting old and ugly and has been disease infested for a while which is a turn off for me so you can have her :p

Get a little trigger happy there darlin...:D

FallenZ28

03-06-2006, 04:15 PM

Get a little trigger happy there darlin...:D
he got a little excited haha.

flaming-ford

03-06-2006, 07:35 PM

palamala handerson does it to me every time :rolleyes: . My bad guys, honestly don't know how i triple posted guess i'm working on a record.

NWanner

03-07-2006, 10:16 AM

palamala handerson does it to me every time :rolleyes: . My bad guys, honestly don't know how i triple posted guess i'm working on a record.

watch out for her, she can be a handful

Johnny Mac

03-09-2006, 04:38 AM

Cyndy

03-09-2006, 06:47 AM

the first lesson everyone needs to know is that all women and cars cost money, the only real difference is some of them ask for it upfront.

also understand, if it's got tits or tires, it will eventually cause you problems.

you have to be attractive on several different levels too....

be somebody and make a future for yourself and girls will be all over you.

Johnny Mac
http://my67.net

Um First off I find what you said a bit offensive..
Secondly, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE MONEY HUNGRY HIGH MAINTENANCE WOMEN...

Tits or tires eventually cause you problems???
Yes women can be a problem but your putting it all on us with that statement. You men cause problems just as much...

Think about what you want to say before you type it out...
So that you don't offend us.....

Johnny Mac

03-09-2006, 06:14 PM

Are you kidding me?? I offer tongue-n-cheek and all you got is some betchy reply?? sorry to tick you off cupcake...

guys... if they can't take a joke....

NWanner

03-09-2006, 06:40 PM

Are you kidding me?? I offer tongue-n-cheek and all you got is some betchy reply?? sorry to tick you off cupcake...

guys... if they can't take a joke....
umm yea if you wanna get all tonque-and-cheek in the lounge then go right ahead but this is the ladies of the f-body world's section and cyndy is the moderator so if you don't like "cupcake's betchy reply" then you might want to go seek another section of our forums.

Tenom

03-09-2006, 09:42 PM

I'm not sure if I got this from someone here that posted this before but here goes anyway.

http://myspace-404.vo.llnwd.net/00210/40/49/210979404_l.jpg

NWanner

03-09-2006, 11:41 PM

I'm not sure if I got this from someone here that posted this before but here goes anyway.

http://myspace-404.vo.llnwd.net/00210/40/49/210979404_l.jpg
lol, yea seen that before. funny chit. good thing i don't have to worry about that problem haha

Cyndy

03-10-2006, 03:11 AM

Are you kidding me?? I offer tongue-n-cheek and all you got is some betchy reply?? sorry to tick you off cupcake...

guys... if they can't take a joke....

Please dont call me cupcake...

Now for my so called betchy reply, if thats how you feel about it then fine.
It was not betchy..

Now with that said this thread is now locked....